Patch 1.1 Update: Bigger XP + New Quests — Ginza Li’s Sex Quest ⚔️
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Hello Lovelies,
Thank you for sticking with me through this wild and perilous journey. I’ve appreciated all of your lovely comments and messages. It seems like you enjoy the series, which makes me happy ☺️.
In my last Sex Quest post, I shared that I’ve been grieving the loss of my family dog. I felt like it was important to tell you this because I don’t want you to see me as just a fantasy or a vehicle for getting off. Behind the persona, there’s a real person.
“Ginza Li” isn’t my real name.
I had a different pen name until my first trip to Japan, when I took the Ginza Line in Tokyo and the name just kinda clicked (because I love Japan so much). But even though this is a persona, I still want you to see all of me.
when I’m sexy
when I’m ugly
when I’m happy
when I’m sad
when I’m hurt
I was feeling some kind of hurt about enjoying myself.
I mentioned it before, but this side of me; this insatiable, needy side has always been something I kept hidden from the people in my life. And I kept that bottled up like I do with many things I feel anxious about.
Although I haven’t fully reconciled my feelings about my sexual adventures and desires…it’s you, my readers, fellow writers, and this entire pervy community that has made me feel more whole and reassured.
With that in mind, I want to be more intentional about how I approach this journey going forward. I’ve decided to make some changes…
🧮 I Was Being Too Stingy With XP
First, let’s rethink the XP system a little. It wasn’t until after completing my last string of quests that I realized how mentally and emotionally challenging this whole thing actually is. Earning just a few hundred points for everything I put myself through felt pretty disappointing, to be honest.
So going forward, I’m going to roughly double the XP values. I won’t be retroactively adding points to previous quests, but this new scaling feels more in line with how more confident I’m becoming.
Baby Steps
🤭 Tutorial Quests = 20 experience points
😅 Beginner Quests = 30 experience points
Early Game
😰 Intermediate Quests = 50 experience points
⭐ Intermediate Main Quest = 150 experience points
🔒 Bonus Objective = +100 experience points
Mid Game
😳 Expert Difficulty: 100 experience points
⭐ Expert Main Quest = 300 experience points
🔒 Bonus Objective = +200 experience points
End Game
😈 Extreme Difficulty: 100-200 experience points
⭐ Master Main Quest = 400 experience points
🔒 Bonus Objective = +200 experience points
💀 Secret Objective = ??? experience points
📜 New Ways to Get in Trouble
Repeatable Quests (weekly)
Who says you can only do something once? I decided to add a few weekly repeatable quests because apparently “once”isn’t enough for me. A lot of them will overlap with whatever else I’m working on, but I figured I might as well lean into it and give myself extra excuses to be a little naughty. And honestly? Sometimes I end up doing these things anyway… so I might as well start rewarding myself for it.
⬜️ Wear no bra in public = 15 experience points
⬜️ Wear something risky (short skirt, sheer top, etc.) = 15 experience points
⬜️ Flirt with someone (in person) = 20 experience points
⬜️ Masturbate in a public setting = 20 experience points
⬜️ Take a mirror selfie in lingerie or less = 25 experience points
⬜️ Go out without panties = 30 experience points
⬜️ Try a new kink or toy = 50 experience points
⬜️ Take nudes or risky photos in a semi-public place = 50 experience points
Pride Month Quests 🏳️🌈 (Seasonal)
Because it’s June, I’m giving myself a little extra motivation for Pride month 🏳️🌈. Any quests involving girls, sapphic experiences, or general LGBTQ+ stuff will get a +20% XP bonus for the rest of this “Sapphic Season.”
Yes, I’m very obviously trying to bribe myself into finally hooking up with a girl for the first time. The clock’s ticking and I’m definitely putting some pressure on myself, but whatever. I’m adding a few more quests to help me explore my curiosities further.
✅ Join a lesbian dating app
✅ Watch a sapphic movie or show
⬜️ Compliment a girl’s appearance or outfit in public
⬜️ Show a little pride in public (e.g. sticker, flag, jewelry, t-shirt)
⬜️ Send my substack crush a flirty message
⬜️ Kiss one of my female friends
Less Cute, More Dangerous 😈
I’ve been going back and forth trying to make the fantasy stuff fit with these real-world adventures. So I’m taking a small step back from the fantasy aesthetic and leaning into something more grounded (realistic avatars and outfits) while still keeping that fantasy flavor in the UI.
Yes, there will still be pics from my adventures, but the game elements should feel a lot more cohesive… and way more fun.
🎁 Spoiling Myself With Quest Rewards
I’ve been thinking about how to keep myself motivated through all of this, and I decided small rewards are the way to go…things like treating myself to cute gifts or some much-needed aftercare. But I’m also feeling a little lazy about deciding on my own, so I’m letting you have a say.
I’ll leave this poll at the end of this post where you can vote on how I can reward myself…properly.
Kisses,
Ginza Li 🖤






I mean, grinding is a part of every rpg... if only that could be worked into your quests somehow... 🤔
Thank you Sweetie ❤️🥰💋😍🌹😘